{"id":507,"date":"2012-06-04T20:38:25","date_gmt":"2012-06-05T03:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/?p=507"},"modified":"2012-06-04T20:39:52","modified_gmt":"2012-06-05T03:39:52","slug":"reminder-of-how-far-youve-come-is-always-a-good-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/reminder-of-how-far-youve-come-is-always-a-good-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"Reminder of How Far You&#8217;ve Come is Always a Good Thing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/reminder-of-how-far-youve-come-is-always-a-good-thing\/iloveme\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-508\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-508\" title=\"I Love Me!\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/iloveme.jpg\" alt=\"I Love Me Pendant\" width=\"176\" height=\"176\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/iloveme.jpg 275w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/iloveme-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/><\/a>It&#8217;s really too bad that we spend so much time beating ourselves up over the things we haven&#8217;t yet accomplished and so little praising ourselves for how far we&#8217;ve come. I know that it seems to be &#8220;human nature&#8221; but I&#8217;ve gotta believe that it can be changed if we just keep working on a new habit.<\/p>\n<p>It takes little things like jotting down our &#8220;wins&#8221; in a notebook on a regular basis. Becoming aware of when we&#8217;re beating ourselves up so we can grab the notebook and change what we&#8217;re thinking about ourselves just by reading all the wonderful things we&#8217;ve written. Of course that also means that you have to get ok with praising yourself to begin with.<\/p>\n<p>Go ahead, give it a try. You don&#8217;t have to let everyone in your world read what you&#8217;re writing!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s wearing when people keep telling you that when you know your strengths&#8230; and more importantly, you&#8217;re willing to state them out loud &#8230; that somehow it makes you conceited or self-centered or egotistical. Well, it doesn&#8217;t!! Chances are if you&#8217;re aware of your strengths that you&#8217;re also aware of your weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s called confidence. And if you&#8217;re still working on that part of your personality and aren&#8217;t sure where to go for pointers, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tiffanydow.com\/blog\/confidence\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"broken_link\">Tiffany Dow has some great information and tips<\/a>\u00a0over at her blog that you may wanna check out!<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, grab that notebook and start writing down your wins. You may just get to the point where you like yourself more!<\/p>\n<p>Until then&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s really too bad that we spend so much time beating ourselves up over the things we haven&#8217;t yet accomplished and so little praising ourselves for how far we&#8217;ve come. I know that it seems to be &#8220;human nature&#8221; but I&#8217;ve gotta believe that it can be changed if we just keep working on a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[77,76],"class_list":["post-507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-internet-marketing","tag-awareness","tag-confidence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=507"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/507\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":513,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/507\/revisions\/513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}