{"id":1707,"date":"2013-07-15T12:43:58","date_gmt":"2013-07-15T19:43:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/?p=1707"},"modified":"2017-11-20T20:51:39","modified_gmt":"2017-11-21T03:51:39","slug":"warning-about-chenin-connole-please-pass-this-on-plus-a-quick-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/warning-about-chenin-connole-please-pass-this-on-plus-a-quick-update\/","title":{"rendered":"WARNING about Chenin Connole: Please Pass This On &#8211; Plus a Quick Update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there! I&#8217;m putting up this special post today in hopes that I can save even one person from this woman using them, stealing from them, or threatening them. Please forward and post this link for anyone you can.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-1749\" alt=\"Chenin Connole Fugitive\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Chenin-Connole1.jpg\" width=\"258\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Chenin-Connole1.jpg 323w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Chenin-Connole1-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Chenin-Connole1-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 258px) 100vw, 258px\" \/>This woman&#8217;s name is Chenin Connole.<\/p>\n<p>She comes across as a VERY nice woman who has simply had a lot of very bad things happen in her life and who leads people to believe that she can take care of herself.<\/p>\n<p>She is NOT what she claims. I have included information in the video below and will be posting the text as soon as I have it transcribed.<\/p>\n<p>Her dogs, a female French Mastiff named Lola and a male Rottweiler named Parker, were left with me 4 weeks ago and I am learning new information about her daily at the moment.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\"> <strong>UPDATE<\/strong>: Both dogs have loving forever homes now, but while she no longer has the dogs with her, she may use pics to convince you needs money to save them. They don&#8217;t need saving any more&#8230; they&#8217;re safe!<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>UPDATE (11\/25\/2013):<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0<strong>It&#8217;s official!! Both dogs have loving forever homes!!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I received an email about 2 weeks ago letting me know that Chenin is still in Hawaii near Pahoa. I hope the folks she&#8217;s staying with are aware of how she operates, but either way, Lola and Parker are now focrever out of harms way. They are definitely going to be missed around here but I&#8217;m SO glad that Lola&#8217;s last years will be spent with people who will spoil and love her the way she deserves to be!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>UPDATE (8\/15\/2013):<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0<strong>Family says:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. She is still in Hawaii staying with family. Hopefully they are taking care of her so that she&#8217;s not taking advantage of others. Hopefully, they&#8217;ve taken advantage of the information that we&#8217;ve offered here and are at least keeping an eye on their personal belongings, credit cards, and checkbooks&#8230; the term &#8220;family&#8221; and\/or &#8220;friends&#8221; has never kept her from taking advantage.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>UPDATE (7\/21\/2013):<\/strong> <\/span><strong>After speaking with family, friends and additional victims, we currently know the following:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. She is in Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>2. She was working for a property rental company collecting payments and has taken several thousands from the owner of the property.<\/p>\n<p>3. She was borrowing a car from the property owner which she no longer has.<\/p>\n<p>4. She is calling people to say her Uncle has had a massive heart attack so she needs a ride to _________, depending on where she needs to get to. ** The uncle is fine flew to American Samoa with his wife for the weekend.<\/p>\n<p>5. She was staying at the Uncle&#8217;s home with a cousin who seems to be set on protecting her because she&#8217;s family.<\/p>\n<p>6. Enough family has been notified about what she&#8217;s up to that it appears they&#8217;ve had enough.<\/p>\n<p>7. Told family that she&#8217;s flying back to Los Angeles tomorrow (7\/22) to get her dogs to bring them back. State side family believes that Island side family, while they protect her from arrest, are not willing to tolerate the behavior so are buying her a plane ticket to send her back state side. She can&#8217;t tell the family that the dogs are actually in AZ because she&#8217;s been telling them for weeks now that they are at a shelter and will be transported to Los Angeles to fly them to Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>8. Spoke with a gentleman this morning who has been renting at the property in Hawaii. Says he paid Chenin and money didn&#8217;t make it to the manager. Also said his belongings (credit cards, checks, luggage etc) have all been gone through as well.<\/p>\n<p>9. Another gal at rental property had loaned $800 to Chenin and hasn&#8217;t seen her since and a 2nd young lady loaned her $20 and had a charger stolen as well. She will be checking on her credit cards to make sure none are missing and that pin numbers are safe.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\"> <span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><strong>ORIGINAL POST IS BELOW<\/strong><\/span><\/div><\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;ve put my weekly check-in video below, with the text below that&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6em;\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/0PXlr3F0mAk\" height=\"315\" width=\"560\" allowfullscreen=\"\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I normally do a weekly check in but this week&#8217;s is a bit different due to a situation I&#8217;ve been in and a warning that I feel has to get out.<\/p>\n<p>In regards to my business, I didn&#8217;t get as much done as I&#8217;d planned.\u00a0I&#8217;ve been learning more about <a href=\"http:\/\/Pinterest.com\/DebiJPins\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Pinterest<\/strong><\/span><\/a>, and\u00a0I&#8217;ve gone over my <a href=\"http:\/\/MindlessMapping.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Mindless Mapping<\/strong><\/span><\/a> Power Point slides. There are a few more things to update on those before I do a live\u00a0Google\u00a0hangout for it, but it got put on the back burner last weekend due to the crap happening at my home.<\/p>\n<p>For ANYONE who is watching the video or reading this, PLEASE, Tweet, put it on Google +, stick it on Facebook&#8230; wherever you socialize with people&#8230;spread this as far as you can so you can keep your family and friends from becoming victims of what seems like a REALLY nice lady!!<\/p>\n<p>Many of you know that I&#8217;ve been dog sitting for the past 4 to 5 weeks. I do some pet sitting over the summer because it&#8217;s a great way\u00a0to make some additional\u00a0income while I&#8217;m building my business.<\/p>\n<p>And\u00a0something that only those of you have known me for a longer time may know, is that my intuition is typically dead-on.\u00a0For as long as I can remember, even during high school years,\u00a0I can pretty much tell you within 5\u00a0seconds to a minute\u00a0whether I&#8217;m going to trust somebody, whether or not they&#8217;re\u00a0listening, and a whole lot more.<\/p>\n<p>But, the gal who left her dogs with me&#8230;\u00a0I missed\u00a0something major somewhere and,\u00a0long story short, I&#8217;ve learned during\u00a0the past week or two that I&#8217;m more than likely dealing with a sociopath.<\/p>\n<p>I have researched, investigated and have contacted several police departments&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>This woman bounces from place to place.\u00a0She has two dogs. A gorgeous Rottweiler\u00a0named Parker (male) and a\u00a0French Mastiff\u00a0named Lola (female).<\/p>\n<p>She has <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.norfolkva.gov\/police\/wanted_person_details_mobile.asp?letter=C\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"broken_link\">wo active arrest warrants\u00a0in Norfolk, Virginia<\/a><\/strong><\/span>. When she needed help to get to Arizona, she told the gal she knew here that the woman\u00a0in VA was in a wheelchair,\u00a0dying of cancer, and her house had just burnt down so she had no place to go.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve gotten <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>messages from that lady<\/strong><\/span>. She and her house are fine. However, Chenin stole a diamond ring and 3 credit cards from her, and bailed on a $1,000 car repair bill.<\/p>\n<p>She\u00a0took care of this Chenin and paid for the dogs food\u00a0for six months. And in return for that,\u00a0the lady stole from her. Then, the day Chenin heard her on the phone with her credit card company to find out about charges, Chenin walked in the door,\u00a0overheard her, said she was going to take the dogs for a ride,\u00a0and then left without any of her other things.<\/p>\n<p>The lady hasn&#8217;t seen her back in VA since.<\/p>\n<p>The warrants are for Grand Larceny and Obtaining Money by False Pretenses (she apparently took rent money from people in an apartment complex she was managing and didn&#8217;t pay the water bill). Neither of these warrants\u00a0are extraditable.<\/p>\n<p>Once she left VA,\u00a0she called on an old boss\/friend in Arizona and told her that\u00a0she had run out of gas\u00a0money and was\u00a0trying to get to Phoenix. The friend sent her money to get to Phoenix and, during\u00a0the past five months, had been allowing her to stay at her home for free.<\/p>\n<p>She says that the dogs have not been to\u00a0the vet and had been locked up in the room\u00a0she was staying in basically 10 to 14 hours\u00a0a day. They would get let out when she came\u00a0home for about five to ten minutes,\u00a0and then they got locked back up&#8230; No walks, no play time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve called the\u00a0animal\u00a0neglect folks but\u00a0I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m going to be able to\u00a0reach them in time.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\">She contacted me the morning she was supposed to pick the dogs up to say she hadn&#8217;t been able to get on a standby flight (even though last week she said she had a ticket already) and that she had signed ownership of the dogs over to a rescue. She refused to give me a number and refused to give the rescue MY number. Without tons of detail, the rescue owner and I have been able to connect&#8230; Chenin gave her a wrong number for me but I tracked her down.<\/div>\n<p>Chenin refused to buy food for the dogs so the lady she lived with was buying food for them. Thankfully,\u00a0the dogs are, for the most part, healthy.<\/p>\n<p>The Mastiff hasn&#8217;t had her nails cut in a very long time if ever so her toes twist sideways when she walks or stands. She wasn&#8217;t getting them cut because she says she doesn&#8217;t like her nails to be handled&#8230; and she won&#8217;t\u00a0pay to get them done.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been told that the\u00a0Mastiff gets bladder\u00a0infections so I&#8217;ve made it a point to\u00a0take her out regularly&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I let this woman know a week and a half&#8230;\u00a0almost two weeks ago that\u00a0the Mastiff has blood in her urine\u00a0and she&#8217;s done nothing about it.<\/p>\n<p>Since then, I spoke to\u00a0the gal she was\u00a0with\u00a0for the five months prior to me and she\u00a0said the dog has had\u00a0blood in her urine\u00a0for the entire five months that she was\u00a0over there as well. That&#8217;s why I called\u00a0the neglect folks.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what I can do with them\u00a0yet. What I DO know is that the dogs are\u00a0her tie to reality.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\">UPDATE: The dog is now receiving proper medical care.<\/div>\n<p>So if you do run into this woman, she&#8217;s\u00a0really nice. She&#8217;s really sweet. She&#8217;s got\u00a0ALL these stories that she&#8217;ll tell you.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;ll tell you that her son was adopted from\u00a0a man that she never married.\u00a0His name (in theory) is\u00a0Isaac who lives in Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>Could be true,\u00a0could not be true&#8230; I haven&#8217;t been able to\u00a0substantiate that either way.<\/p>\n<p>However, she said that she bought\u00a0the Mastiff\u00a0when she was with her husband named Ian, and that Ian died in his sleep in 2005.<\/p>\n<p>Ian did indeed die in his sleep in 2005, but I was told by a\u00a0gal who\u00a0knew\u00a0them when they were in Connecticut who said that Ian overdosed, that Chenin had\u00a0taken him\u00a0for everything she possibly could\u00a0financially and that, because the man died,\u00a0he was never able to\u00a0report or go after her. She also says that they\u00a0had never been anything more than\u00a0friends and &#8220;drug buddies&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to that, she&#8217;ll tell you that her sister lives\u00a0in Montana\u00a0with her brother-in-law. I spoke to a lady\u00a0yesterday Friday\u00a0who said she was\u00a0indeed her sister. But then I spoke with someone else who\u00a0has known Chenin for eleven years that\u00a0said\u00a0&#8220;that&#8217;s NOT her sister. Her sister has an\u00a0entirely different name and her sister lives in Connecticut\u00a0and hasn&#8217;t spoken with her for years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I believe, the best I&#8217;ve been able\u00a0to\u00a0tell, is that the gal in Montana is may be a high school friend.<\/p>\n<p>Why she would be lying for her I don&#8217;t know. But\u00a0like I said, this woman is very good at\u00a0hiding who she is\u00a0until she&#8217;s called on the carpet and told she needs to pay\u00a0rent or utilities or actually take care of herself.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\">UPDATE: I have spoken with this gal and her husband&#8230; they are and have been victims as well. She is NOT lying for her, nor is she helping her any more, in spite of the fact she loves her sister.<\/div>\n<p>Or, in my case,\u00a0she hadn&#8217;t paid me for dog\u00a0sitting before she left for Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>When I didn&#8217;t get a FedEx tracking\u00a0number at the third or fourth request,\u00a0along with several\u00a0OTHER things that just weren&#8217;t adding up&#8230;\u00a0Registration on the truck that her sister and\u00a0brother-in-law were supposed to mail\u00a0because it&#8217;s out-of-date&#8230;\u00a0air conditioning on the truck that&#8217;s supposed to be working, so I\u00a0could take the dogs to the vet&#8230; because I was hired to\u00a0keep them for 120 days to have them\u00a0vetted to move to Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have a registration for the\u00a0vehicle. The air conditioning&#8217;s\u00a0not working and she can&#8217;t find a receipt\u00a0for\u00a0the work that they did, even though it&#8217;s supposed to be guaranteed for 30 to 60 days.<\/p>\n<p>The vet records in Cave Creek, where she\u00a0was living for the five months,\u00a0somehow managed to get lost.\u00a0The vet office couldn&#8217;t find them but said that for $400, they could recreate them.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what you recreate\u00a0them from when you can&#8217;t\u00a0find them. But that was the story.<\/p>\n<p>She had a vet in Montana, and it took\u00a0almost two weeks\u00a0to even get the correct fax number to\u00a0them\u00a0to fax the records here to Arizona\u00a0for me,\u00a0even though I had sent the fax number to her via text message&#8230; twice.<\/p>\n<p>I did finally get in touch with the AZ\u00a0vet. She did get the records from Montana but only on the Mastiff&#8230; there&#8217;s nothing on the Rottweiler.<\/p>\n<p>So, the point of telling you all of this is,\u00a0she&#8217;s full of a lot of stories.<\/p>\n<p>Like I\u00a0said, I believe she is a\u00a0full on sociopath. And these dogs are her\u00a0only touch with reality. I think that&#8217;s\u00a0the ONLY thing real in her life.<\/p>\n<p>And yet she\u00a0doesn&#8217;t take care of them. Thankfully the people that she\u00a0brings into her life and her story as she\u00a0flits from place to place DO take care\u00a0of them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m letting you know because she&#8217;s not stationary.<\/p>\n<p>She was born in Connecticut, and she&#8217;s done\u00a0damage up there.<\/p>\n<p>She has lived in\u00a0Norfolk, Virginia. She has warrants out\u00a0for her arrest there.<\/p>\n<p>The gal who knew Ian\u00a0and her in Connecticut says\u00a0she also has warrants out for her\u00a0arrest in Florida, which I haven&#8217;t been\u00a0able to\u00a0locate yet.<\/p>\n<p>And, she&#8217;s been in\u00a0Southern California&#8230; at least in the San Diego area.<\/p>\n<p>She told me, as I said, she bought the Mastiff while she was married to Ian who it turns out was NOT\u00a0her husband.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve tracked down the dogs chips. She\u00a0actually purchased\u00a0this dog with a man that used to be her\u00a0boyfriend in Tolleson, AZ. I&#8217;ve located someone who knows him who says she wiped him out financially too.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0reached out to him and,\u00a0hopefully, before she shows up\u00a0tomorrow morning, he will get in touch\u00a0with me and let me know whether he\u00a0has a claim on this dog.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0don&#8217;t know whether he let her HAVE the\u00a0dog when she left or\u00a0she RAN with the dog.<\/p>\n<p>The only difference in my situation, and the reason I&#8217;m putting this out\u00a0there, is because I truly believe that all\u00a0things happen for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>These dogs have been bounced from\u00a0place to place. This woman has used\u00a0person after person after person to\u00a0support her.\u00a0She has no home. She has no landing spot.\u00a0And she has no money.<\/p>\n<p>And, when you figure that out,\u00a0she goes from very nice to\u00a0very NOT nice, and I don&#8217;t know how\u00a0dangerous\u00a0she could possibly become in a situation where someone corners her.<\/p>\n<p>She lands at the airport tonight in Arizona at ten o&#8217;clock.\u00a0I&#8217;ve requested that she not come by my house to get the dogs until after 9am on Monday&#8230; she says she&#8217;ll be here at 9:30.<\/p>\n<p>My son&#8217;s here with me tonight\u00a0because I fully expect her to show up\u00a0unannounced because she wants the dogs.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest difference for HER in this\u00a0situation with ME rather than anyone\u00a0else that she has done this to up to this point, is that\u00a0she wasn&#8217;t living in my house.<\/p>\n<p>With everyone else, she was living with them\u00a0and, when they figure out who she is and\u00a0what she is and what she&#8217;s about,\u00a0she&#8217;s been able to simply leave her belongings, grab her dogs, get\u00a0in her truck, and leave.<\/p>\n<p>And they&#8217;ve never seen her again.<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0mistake she made in this case is she left the dogs with me and then left the mainland.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I absolutely should have checked\u00a0her out\u00a0before I ever agreed to take her dogs.\u00a0It&#8217;s VERY unusual for me to not investigate people.<\/p>\n<p>But I can tell you\u00a0that if she showed up at the door\u00a0tomorrow and did the same thing, I don&#8217;t think\u00a0it would have ever crossed\u00a0my mind\u00a0that she would leave her animals with\u00a0someone she&#8217;d known for a week,\u00a0and fly to Hawaii,\u00a0knowing that she wasn&#8217;t\u00a0gonna pay me.<\/p>\n<p>I told her that that it&#8217;s that\u00a0part that makes me the maddest. The fact that I&#8217;m not gonna get\u00a0paid\u00a0is really secondary\u00a0to the fact that she endangered these\u00a0animals.<\/p>\n<p>When I let her know that, I was told, &#8220;well I didn&#8217;t endanger my animals.\u00a0I left them with you, and I left them in your care.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I said &#8220;No, you LEFT them with someone you had known for\u00a0a single week! Which means you\u00a0have NO idea what kind of person I am\u00a0when you threaten my family, or you\u00a0threaten me, or you don&#8217;t pay me!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I could\u00a0have just as\u00a0easily been someone who got so angry\u00a0that, to take it out on HER, I take her animals out to the\u00a0desert and DUMP them somewhere&#8230;\u00a0or KILL them and dump them\u00a0somewhere!<\/p>\n<p>Luckily for her\u00a0I&#8217;m an animal lover.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m certainly not gonna take it out on the dogs because she&#8217;s\u00a0the basket-case, psycho that she is.<\/p>\n<p>In case you see her,\u00a0or in case anyone in your family sees her, here are pictures of her dogs.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\"><strong>UPDATE:<\/strong> She no longer will have the dogs with her, but I&#8217;m sure she will use pictures of them to use to get people to help her out&#8230; the dogs will need rescued or vet care or someone&#8217;s hurting them&#8230;. SOMETHING.<\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1721\" style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1721\" class=\" wp-image-1721 \" alt=\"Parker  Chenin Connole Rottweiler\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Parker-2013-06-26-small.jpg\" width=\"230\" height=\"173\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Parker-2013-06-26-small.jpg 320w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Parker-2013-06-26-small-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-1721\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Parker<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1722\" style=\"width: 239px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1722\" class=\" wp-image-1722 \" alt=\"Lola Chenin Connole's Mastiff\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Lola.jpg\" width=\"229\" height=\"171\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Lola.jpg 720w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Lola-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 229px) 100vw, 229px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-1722\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lola<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The mug\u00a0shot at the top of this post is from the Norfolk police site.<\/p>\n<p>She says she works for\u00a0Pulte Realty. I&#8217;ve\u00a0contacted the gal over at Pulte to\u00a0let her know\u00a0that this is the gal that she has in her\u00a0employ, in case she has access to any kind\u00a0of money.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\"> UPDATE: I contacted the temp agency she was working for. The gal responded to let me know that Chenin was in their employ until June 18, at which time she was leaving for Hawaii. In other words, she does NOT work for Pulte, nor does she any longer have a job.<\/div>\n<p>They&#8217;re gorgeous dogs!\u00a0And it just kills me that she&#8217;s been treating them like this.<\/p>\n<p>Parker is a very lovable Rottweiler that\u00a0loves to lick your face. He also likes to\u00a0pull on his leash but as you can see,\u00a0for the most part he&#8217;s healthy. We&#8217;ve had to loosen his collar and his harness, because both were digging into his\u00a0neck and chest so bad that most of the fur under his front legs is gone. I&#8217;m not sure that she&#8217;s checked the\u00a0sizing on him for\u00a0a very long time. He&#8217;s 4.5 years old and about 130 pounds.<\/p>\n<p>Lola is about\u00a0120 pounds and she&#8217;s 7.5 years old. And as I said, she has blood in her urine so bad that it&#8217;s completely red when she pees, so I&#8217;m REALLY hoping that\u00a0the neglect folks over at Sheriff\u00a0Arpaio&#8217;s group gets in touch with me before this lady shows up.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>So,\u00a0PLEASE pass this on to your friends and\u00a0family!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m gonna include this out on\u00a0Facebook so people can pass it on\u00a0to their families and friends as well. The more people who\u00a0know about this woman,\u00a0the better off we are. Because honestly,\u00a0she is SO nice and has SO many stories\u00a0and reasons\u00a0and excuses and\u00a0ways to tell you that she needs your\u00a0help, that\u00a0IF you have any compassion at ALL&#8230; and I know most of the people that will be reading this initially do&#8230; there&#8217;s a good chance that she\u00a0WILL get into your house, because as nice as she starts out, there would be no reason for any of your\u00a0family members to look her up.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t look her up, and I work security,\u00a0and I hand out my home address to NO ONE!<\/p>\n<p>I am what my friends consider\u00a0the most paranoid person in the world\u00a0when it comes to my address,\u00a0and protecting my family, because we DO\u00a0work security, and because my son\u00a0DOES work armed, and he DOES have people he has\u00a0been a witness for and put in\u00a0jail.<\/p>\n<p>So we&#8217;re VERY protective. We&#8217;ve had friends that have\u00a0gone from\u00a0friends, back to drug addicts and become\u00a0a danger to my home. I&#8217;ve had business associates threaten me and my family.<\/p>\n<p>So I investigate people. And if *I* didn&#8217;t\u00a0investigate her,\u00a0I know she&#8217;s gonna go find someone else&#8230;\u00a0a pet sitter,\u00a0a dog lover, somebody, somewhere\u00a0who is going to take her and her dogs in because they\u00a0feel sorry for her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;re only going to be safe\u00a0with her until\u00a0you ask her for money, or you tell her\u00a0that if she doesn&#8217;t leave your gonna\u00a0call someone about the dogs.<\/p>\n<p>I told her that, since I couldn&#8217;t get a tracking number, I thought she should come get her dogs. I\u00a0was on text message with her and with the change in her tone&#8230; you would have thought\u00a0I told her that I just slit her dog&#8217;s throat.. for the reaction that I got&#8230;\u00a0the panic, the text messages&#8230;\u00a0you would have thought that I told her I killed her dog.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the change\u00a0when she&#8217;s busted.<\/p>\n<p>Now, for me,\u00a0like I said, she made the mistake of\u00a0being in Hawaii. She wasn&#8217;t some place where she could get caught,\u00a0load them in the car, and leave. She\u00a0couldn&#8217;t get a plane. I told her I knew\u00a0who she was last Wednesday and she hasn&#8217;t been able to get\u00a0on a flight until Sunday&#8230; tonight so&#8230;\u00a0she couldn&#8217;t just take off.<\/p>\n<p>She had to\u00a0trust\u00a0that I wouldn&#8217;t hurt her dogs. And\u00a0right now, the last conversation she and I had via text,\u00a0was calm. I don&#8217;t\u00a0believe she&#8217;ll be calm when she gets here,\u00a0but we&#8217;ll see. I think she&#8217;s calm right\u00a0now because I was able to\u00a0let her know that I&#8217;ve learned SO much\u00a0about her that I almost know more about\u00a0her\u00a0than she knows herself, because she doesn&#8217;t know truth from fiction.<\/p>\n<p>And when I throw names at her that she\u00a0didn&#8217;t expect me to know about,\u00a0it might have thrown her&#8230; I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>But\u00a0I do know that this woman is a sociopath, which means it&#8217;s possible that she could\u00a0be dangerous.<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\">I&#8217;ve spoken to enough people who have dealt with her at this point that I know a couple things. She&#8217;s louder via text message than any other place. If she knows you know anything about her or you mention having the police stop by, she disappears. And, if she is in person and gets loud, you can back her down by telling her you will call the police.<\/div>\n<p>And she IS going to be moving on to the\u00a0next victim.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, right now I&#8217;m in Arizona. But please PLEASE&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care where your friends and family\u00a0are. Just because this woman is currently\u00a0coming to Arizona does NOT mean she&#8217;s gonna stay here. She&#8217;s\u00a0gone from\u00a0Connecticut to\u00a0Virginia to Montana to Texas to\u00a0Hawaii to Southern California\u00a0to Utah and back here to Phoenix!<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s gonna go wherever she needs to\u00a0go,\u00a0and however far\u00a0a tank of gas can take her from what I can\u00a0tell.<\/p>\n<p>So please, let your family and friends\u00a0know.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll catch you guys up later on what\u00a0I&#8217;m doing with the business and I&#8217;ll update you on this situation as well.<\/p>\n<p>But really all I&#8217;ve been\u00a0doing this week is just learning more about Pinterest, getting\u00a0my hangouts together and,\u00a0for the most part, not near as much\u00a0business as I would have liked to get\u00a0done because I have been dealing\u00a0with these dogs and what I&#8217;m going to do\u00a0with them and how I&#8217;m going to handle\u00a0this situation.<\/p>\n<p>I hope everyone&#8217;s having a really awesome week.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve experienced a LOT of people in my\u00a0lifetime and a lot of different\u00a0personalities but I\u00a0GOTTA say, this is DEFINITELY a\u00a0first for me.<\/p>\n<p>Keep your family safe.<\/p>\n<p>Investigate the people that you allow\u00a0into your home.\u00a0I don&#8217;t care HOW nice they are, it&#8217;s\u00a0two minutes for a quick Google search.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to a VERY, VERY\u00a0productive\u00a0work week! Take care.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Your Turn:\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000080;\">If you&#8217;ve had any run-ins or experience with this gal, please feel free to add the info in the comments below so that there&#8217;s less chance of her explaining things away to her next &#8220;victim&#8221;. Or, you can drop me an anonymous note if you prefer.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there! I&#8217;m putting up this special post today in hopes that I can save even one person from this woman using them, stealing from them, or threatening them. Please forward and post this link for anyone you can. This woman&#8217;s name is Chenin Connole. 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