{"id":1622,"date":"2013-07-30T20:24:06","date_gmt":"2013-07-31T03:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/?p=1622"},"modified":"2013-08-14T16:48:03","modified_gmt":"2013-08-14T23:48:03","slug":"affirmations-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/affirmations-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Affirmations Work!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t know what affirmations even were when I started my first business&#8230; But I learned that they work&#8230; I&#8217;m just glad I started with the money ones! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/gameoflifebook.php\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-1838\" alt=\"The Game of Life and How to Play It by Florence Scovel Shinn\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/The-Game-of-Life-and-How-to-Play-It-by-Florence-Scovel-Shinn.jpg\" width=\"210\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/The-Game-of-Life-and-How-to-Play-It-by-Florence-Scovel-Shinn.jpg 300w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/The-Game-of-Life-and-How-to-Play-It-by-Florence-Scovel-Shinn-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 210px) 100vw, 210px\" \/><\/a>When I started my first business, the people who introduced me to it immediately told me to start reading&#8230; <em>Think and Grow Rich<\/em>, <em>The Game of Life and How to Play It<\/em>, and more.<\/p>\n<p>And they taught me about affirmations.<\/p>\n<p>ALL that stuff was fufu to me. I couldn&#8217;t believe that they thought I would have time to do all that reading on top of writing down goals, posting flyers, making calls, and learning everything I had to know about being a business owner!<\/p>\n<p>After all, I had started a business to make money, not to learn a new way to talk to myself!<\/p>\n<p>But I did it anyway. I did it because people earning what I wanted to earn said to.<\/p>\n<p>And since money was the primary purpose of my starting the business, I started with a financial affirmation&#8230; &#8220;I&#8217;m earning $50,000 per month!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right. My first affirmation was that I was earning more in a month than I&#8217;d earned in an entire year up to that point. And you know what happened?<\/p>\n<p>I heard a voice inside my head right after I said it that said, &#8220;Yeah right!! Like THAT&#8217;S even possible!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6em;\">My thought was &#8220;What&#8217;s wrong with you?! If you&#8217;re MY subconscious then shouldn&#8217;t you be working WITH me on this plan?!&#8221;<\/span>Luckily for me, &#8220;they&#8221; (the top income earners and the books I&#8217;d been reading) had warning me that this would happen. Something about my subconscious mind getting in the way of my success and my goals.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-1829\" alt=\"Money Affirmations\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Money-Affirmations-1024x668.jpg\" width=\"211\" height=\"137\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Money-Affirmations-1024x668.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Money-Affirmations-300x195.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 211px) 100vw, 211px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Well, because I&#8217;m stubborn, I kept repeating the affirmation all day long while I was posting flyers&#8230; about 12-14 hours a day.<\/p>\n<p>Initially, the voice was persistent&#8230; &#8220;No you&#8217;re not!&#8221;, &#8220;You can&#8217;t do that!&#8221;, &#8220;You know you&#8217;re lying!&#8221; sort of things.<\/p>\n<p>And then they gradually started quieting down.<\/p>\n<p>It took a few months, but I eventually stopped hearing any of those things at all. And then it happened&#8230; I GOT IT!<\/p>\n<p>I knew that the affirmations were working on changing my self-talk and beliefs the day someone out of the blue said, &#8220;Hey, how much money do you make?&#8221; And my knee-jerk response was, &#8220;$50,000&#8230;. er, about $15,000 a month right now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>THAT&#8217;S when I knew that affirmations worked. And the best month I ever had in that business was&#8230; wait for it&#8230; $50,000!<\/p>\n<p>Hmmmm&#8230;. shoulda made that affirmation a bit higher eh?<\/p>\n<div class=\"scbb-content-box scbb-rounded-corners scbb-content-box-gray\">The point is, if you&#8217;ve never done affirmations, you should really look into getting a few started. And if you do affirmations already, make sure you add those high income goal ones into the mix!<\/div>\n<p>I did learn a few things along the way though that might help.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make sure you&#8217;re affirmations do NOT include words &#8220;don&#8217;t&#8221; or &#8220;not&#8221;. For example, rather than say &#8220;I will not get sick this winter&#8221;, change it to &#8220;I WILL be healthy all winter&#8221;. Your subconscious mind focuses on the main points so all it picks up the first way is &#8220;I WILL get sick&#8230; &#8220;. It&#8217;s sort of like saying &#8220;I will NOT think about a pink elephant&#8221;&#8230; Guess what? \ud83d\ude42<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Including specific time frames typically will bring about results sooner. For example, &#8220;I will be enjoying my Caribbean cruise in October, 2014&#8221; will get you there faster than &#8220;I will go on a cruise to the Caribbean&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>If you&#8217;re setting high financial goals and just flat ass don&#8217;t believe they&#8217;ll EVER be possible, you can get the fight to stop a bit if you change it to &#8220;I am BECOMING a 7-figure income earner with everything I DO&#8221; type of affirmation rather than &#8220;I AM a 7-figure income earner&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It took me a while to learn that those little things like that make a BIG difference. I can&#8217;t wait to hear about your results!<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Your Turn:<\/span> Are you familiar with affirmations? Do you have a favorite? Do you remember a time when it &#8220;dawned&#8221; on you that they truly work? 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