{"id":1271,"date":"2013-04-05T09:04:06","date_gmt":"2013-04-05T16:04:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daretogetpersonal.com\/blog\/?p=637"},"modified":"2019-06-13T01:04:11","modified_gmt":"2019-06-13T08:04:11","slug":"stubborness-or-persistence-call-it-what-you-want-it-gets-the-job-done","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/stubborness-or-persistence-call-it-what-you-want-it-gets-the-job-done\/","title":{"rendered":"Stubborn or Persistent? Call it What You Want&#8230; It Gets the Job Done!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My friends and family call it being stubborn. The personal development people call it persistence. I don&#8217;t care what it&#8217;s called&#8230; it gets the job done for me every time!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve spent the past week and a half working on getting my website updated, my shopping cart in place and my affiliate program set up. And during the &#8220;down&#8221; time I&#8217;m still aiming for 3 posts a week for a blog challenge (this is #2 for the week), creating a new product and completing my niche research packs.<\/p>\n<p>Top that off with the men in my house coming and going and the maintenance guys revving up their chainsaws at 6am (that&#8217;s when I&#8217;ve been headed TO bed) and yes, I&#8217;m one tired puppy. But I&#8217;ll take that over having to\u00a0spend any more time at the doctor&#8217;s because I have to go back to that stupid job!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/tired-puppy_11380922_xs.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-648\" alt=\"One Tired Puppy\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/tired-puppy_11380922_xs.jpg\" width=\"423\" height=\"283\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This morning (it&#8217;s now 8:45am and I&#8217;m finishing this before I head off to bed), my man tells me that I need to stop working all night&#8230; it&#8217;s not good for me.\u00a0He&#8217;s probably right&#8230; scratch that&#8230; I KNOW he&#8217;s right. But that&#8217;s only because I&#8217;ve been spending most of my daytime hours working too.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve gotta pick one or the other, not both.<\/p>\n<p>But without having the stubbornness I have, I would have given up last week! I mean hey, do I REALLY have to have an affiliate program set up right NOW? Well in my mind I do. It&#8217;s something that I can do now or do later, so why not just get it done while I&#8217;m figuring out all the shopping cart stuff? Otherwise when I get back to it later I&#8217;ll have forgotten all the cart stuff and have to start again.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, I have lots of great reasons to work as hard as I am right now. \u00a0And no, my honey doesn&#8217;t always understand all my reasons, but I will give him credit for always making the attempt of appearing to understand and be interested. LOL<\/p>\n<p>When I want to get something done, whether it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m excited about it or I&#8217;m financially motivated or both&#8230; or because someone tells me I can&#8217;t (yep, I&#8217;ll admit it), I get on a track to do it no matter what it takes.<\/p>\n<p>And this week it&#8217;s the technical crap that&#8217;s kicking my butt again. But that&#8217;s not going to stop me. I&#8217;ve never let technical stuff win yet and I&#8217;m certainly not gonna start now&#8230; not when it means so much. And like my mom always told me over and over&#8230; &#8220;Can&#8217;t never did a thing!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/cant-can_11105556_xs.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-647\" alt=\"Can't Never Did a Damn Thing!\" src=\"http:\/\/debij.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/cant-can_11105556_xs.jpg\" width=\"208\" height=\"208\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So I work at. I search for information anywhere I can find it and I test out things that I think might work until I find something that does. And I&#8217;m learning to check with people I know online who are, or have been, going thru the same thing as they build their own businesses to that next level too.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m finding out how valuable the relationships are that I&#8217;m building.<\/p>\n<p>A great example is Victoria over at <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MyDailyCuppa<\/span><\/strong>. She&#8217;d mentioned what she&#8217;s doing with her site and that she&#8217;d added a &#8220;Home&#8221; tab. I&#8217;d played with that on my own site off and on for the past week without success. So at this point, it wasn&#8217;t priority on my list but it was comforting to know that when I eventually took time to do it, that it could be done (and that I wasn&#8217;t the only one that was having a bit of trouble with it).<\/p>\n<p>Well, Victoria saw the comment I left about figuring mine out later and was kind enough to drop me a note explaining what she&#8217;d done to make it happen. About 30 minutes later (did I mention I&#8217;d been up all night?), I had a &#8220;Home&#8221; tab on my website&#8230; well, at least on this one&#8230; but now I know how to do my other one much faster!<\/p>\n<p>Thanks Victoria&#8230; you&#8217;re a gem!<\/p>\n<p>So does stubborness pay off? I can honestly say that there are times when it might not look that way to outsiders looking in, but I&#8217;ll take having a stubborn personality over not having a stubborn one 9 times out of 10!!<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Your turn:<\/span> Are you stubborn? Persistent? Tenacious? Has it gotten you INTO trouble or OUT more often than not? Go ahead. Spill the beans! LOL<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6em;\">Subscribe to my list so you won&#8217;t miss out on any of my subscriber-only specials! And be sure to include your links in the comments below. 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